The IntegrityDating Rules for Success
From reading the previous lessons, you can see that there are many areas where singles have and are continually being misguided and misled. Therefore, I think you can now understand better what I am saying when I talk about dating confusion. You also know why we desperately need to make major changes in the way we date and look for love. Singles who desire to find love with monogamy and marriage will have greater success by following the IntegrityDating Rules for Success. Here they are.
The IntegrityDating Rules for Success and the Answer to America's Core Dating Problems
These aspects are what good, healthy, happy, long-term relationships are built on. Don’t just look for someone that can provide these for you but be sure you are working on building them in yourself. You must be sure you can give your partner all the good you are expecting from them.
A Quick Review
Bottom line: Face-to-face dates are the best. Phone and video calls are the next best. All other forms of technology are not recommended for getting to know a new dating partner. If you have a hard time limiting your texting, emailing, and chatting with a new person for a couple of months, at least cut back for the first month. Use impersonal technology as little as possible; perhaps for texting “I’m running a few minutes late,” but not for asking questions in-order-to get to know them better, and never assume anything. Always ask them to clarify something they said if you don’t completely understand. Long-distance relationships should grow mostly from phone and video conversations.
First: Evaluate and be sure you are with the person you want to work toward marriage with. Have fun enjoying your dates in other areas first. Before adding sexual activities be sure you like their character, values, goals and the connection you have with them.
Second: Become exclusive next, after you are with someone whom you have an excellent connection, are happy and becoming a better person with. Only become exclusive with a person you are reasonably certain you may want to spend the rest of your life with.
Third: Add sexual activities after you have evaluated, are exclusive, and when both of you agree.
Following this 3-step progression is using wisdom in finding love. For those of you who are ready to make this drastic change in your mental love blueprint, thoughts, and actions, I believe you will be amazed with the wonderful results you will experience.
As you can see, these rules are answers to the core problems we see in today's Traditional and Recreational dating styles. Now, let’s explore how guidelines can make you a more desirable dating partner.